måndag 4 augusti 2014

Second Life: Loordes of London - August Group Gift

If you did not already know, the Loordes of London store group is free to join, and every month a new group gift is sent out in group notices. Usually the group gift is a new or recent release in a special color not sold in the store. Considering the quality of designs at Loordes, it is a great opportunity to score some amazing items for free.

The group gift this month is a classy knee-length pencil skirt. It works for both the casual shopping date, and the less casual job interview.
I matched The Ballets Russes skirt with the Lucci Tank which was a previous group gift, and the Palermo heels for Slink High Feet, which are a new release available at The Designer Circle. I accessorized with The Keep necklace and new release Gilgamesh Undone earrings and bracelets.
Side view of the Palermo heels.
A closer view of the heels. Are they not just gorgeous?

Closer view of The Keep necklace and Gilgamesh Undone Earrings. The pictures really don't do them justice, the details are amazing.


lördag 2 augusti 2014

Second Life: Loordes of London - New Releases this Weekend

For work this weekend I have the pleasure of wearing the latest releases, featured for Fi*Friday, Lyfe of Style and Designer Showcase. First out is today's outfit in earthy brown and dark red.
From top to bottom, I am wearing the Nefertiti's Splendor #17 earrings, La Boheme Ceramic Necklace in Red, The Joplin Rock #11 mesh top, the Kings Sports Bra in Chocolate, Nubian Queen #1 bracelets, Allier Slacks #26 and The Hetaera Release #11 sandals for Slink Flat Feet. All of the items I am wearing are for sale at Fi*Friday, except the sandals which are available at Lyfe of Style. 



Next out is tomorrow's outfit, for which I chose to wear the latest in swimsuit fashion. I rarely get to wear a swimsuit in RL so I jump at the opportunity to wear one in SL, especially one as gorgeous as this.
Again, from top to bottom, I am wearing Nefertiti's Splendor #16 earrings, Splashdown One-Piece #7 swimsuit, and Dr. Shoeseurs #21 high heeled two-tone mules for Slink High Feet. I chose not to wear a lot of jewelry with this because really, who wears jewelry to the beach? These items are available all over the place really. The Splashdown One-Piece can be found at Lyfe of Style, while the Dr.Shoeseurs mules are at Designer Showcase. The rest of course can be found at Fi*Friday.

Last, but certainly not least, for Sunday's outfit I chose to wear something fitting in the heat wave we are having where I live, a sassy minidress which is on flash sale this week so hurry up and get yours before it's back to full price.
Here I am wearing Nefertiti's Splendor #14 earrings, A Touch of Deco #2 necklace, Nubian Queen #1 bracelets, and Dr. Shoeseurs #20 two-tone high heel mules for Slink High Feet. The dress is the Tuzia Mini in Blue. The bracelets and shoes are available at Fi*Friday, while the dress is on sale at the main store. The rest of the accessories can also be found at the main store, although sadly no longer on sale, still very affordable.

I am reminded each week how incredibly lucky I am to be working at my very favorite store in SL, where I have access to all these amazingly gorgeous items, AND I get to do what I enjoy most, help people.

torsdag 31 juli 2014

The Pursuit of Happiness?

Every time I hear someone make a comment along the lines of the title of this post, I remember a line I once heard: "Happiness is not a constant state of mind, but rather little pockets of emotion throughout your life".

If all those people pursuing happiness were to actually exist in a constant state of happiness, it would de facto negate the emotion, since there would be nothing to offset the happiness. How can you tell that you are happy, if you never experience anything else? To truly feel happy, you have to have felt sad, angry, frustrated, annoyed, and generally upset.

Spending life pursuing happiness to the exclusion of everything else is an exercise in futility. The true moments of happiness never have a chance to register because they are fleeting, and that is not what happiness is supposed to be, right?

Instead, try to appreciate the happy moments no matter how fleeting, because they go by so quickly and when they are gone, all we have left are the memories.


onsdag 28 maj 2014

Happy Birthday, Joel!

Today is the birthday of one of the best musicians I know. He is the lead singer and guitarist for the band Dragonfly, which I first heard of in Second Life, and have been a fan of since. I tried to think of something to get Joel for his birthday, and the best thing I could come up with is this...

For a birthday gift for Joel, go buy Dragonfly's first album, Amplification, follow them on Twitter and Facebook, and catch a show in Second Life. Support independent music.

Independents - "May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one." (Mal Reynolds)

måndag 26 maj 2014

#YesAllWomen - Equality Now

Equality Now is an organization that I have supported for many years. Yesterday on Twitter I noticed their retweets of the hashtag #YesAllWomen and looked into what that was. In my research I found this post by Joss Whedon. A few years old, the message it carries is still very much current, unfortunately. It made me think about some other research I did, about 20 years ago, about women in pre-historic times.

My reason for researching the topic back then was to verify the veracity of a book I had procured. The results of my research got me hooked on anthropology and I have been keeping up to date on new developments in the field. Strangely, those new developments are rarely broadcast to a larger audience. In fact, it can be downright difficult to find the articles in the first place as they are only published in specialized magazines, or even just as thesis papers.

What I have discovered during these 20 years of study is that not only did women have a vastly different role in pre-historic societies than we have been led to believe, but also that what initiated the changes that have led to the societal views we have today was the emergence of organized monotheistic patriarchal religion. The biggest culprit has been the semitic religion, by which I mean that which evolved into the three largest faiths in modern western society: Judaism, Christianity, and Islam.

From what I have seen of archaeological and anthropological findings over the past 20 years, I believe that before the semitic monotheistic faith began to spread people were considered equal, regardless of gender or anything else.

Firstly, common sense says that it would be completely counterproductive to have half the community doing nothing but popping out new mouths to feed and taking care of them. That would quickly lead to the extinction of the human race.

Secondly, with the oftentimes harsh climate and living conditions of pre-historic humans, I just don't see them wasting any kind of resource, whether material or labor. Even supposing women did no kind of hunting at all, they were still very much able to gather vegetable foods, like roots, fruits, berries, nuts, etc.

Thirdly, there is actually archaeological evidence that women, at least in some societies, held status equal to men. For example, women buried in graves of equal or greater opulence than men, with grave gifts of spears, knives and hunting nets.

Fourthly, for humans without the scientific knowledge we have today it would make sense to give women high status since they are the bringers of life. Humans have always tended to worship that which they cannot understand, such as natural phenomena (thunder, lightning, the sun and moon), it would follow logically that they would see the ability to produce new life as special and even sacred.

I believe the decline of equality began when men realized that they are needed to produce new life. My theory is that this made men stop seeing women as sacred, which was the first step toward the patriarchal society we have today. If women are not sacred, but merely equals, the next step would be to put men above women because men genetically have greater physical strength and a larger build. They can take women's ability to give life out of the picture entirely. After that it is easier to reduce female deities to lesser roles and raise male deities to a higher level, followed by the slow but inevitable eradication of female deities altogether, mirrored by the reduction of women's roles in society, until we are left with the skewed male dominatated patriarchal society we have today. Even as late as 1000 years ago, the Norse society held women in high regard. Women were priestesses and the keepers of the keys to their homes. This did not change until Christianity got a firm hold in their society.

We, every one of us, has to realize that we are all humans, that nothing else matters, not gender or skin color or sexuality or anything else. Change has to start somewhere and there is no better place to start this change than in your own home. Raise your children without the constricted views on gender roles that society pushes on us. Raise them to see all as humans, and not to put labels on others, or judge others. Raise them to be individuals.

Equality should not be a dream for the future. It should be a reality. Now.

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Some suggested reading:

Sons of the Mother: Victorian Anthropologists and the Myth of Matriarchal Prehistory
New Women of the Ice Age
Questioning Prehistoric Patriarchy & AnthropologyStone Age (.pdf document)
Cave Women Rocked: Science Shows Prehistoric Gender Equality
Women in Prehistoric Communities: The Start of the Division of Labor
Matrilineality (Wikipedia)

lördag 17 maj 2014

This Weekend @ Loordes of London: Saturday

At the Like Salesroom this week Loordes of London is offering The Babbage Post jacket for only $L75. It comes in several lovely colors, pictured here is only one of them. Head to the Like Salesroom to see all the colors offered.

The Babbage Post in green, here paired with Liverpool Jeans in green and The Keep necklace Green/Copper and The Euclidean earrings.    

fredag 16 maj 2014

This Weekend @ Loordes of London: Friday


There are some truly spectacular new items at Loordes of London this weekend, and I'm not just saying that because I work there. Take a look at the pictures and judge for yourself.


Fi*Friday this week is The Greek Tragedy minidress, which features a tight bodice and a ruffled layered skirt. The dress has lovely gilded details and goes very well with the A Touch Of Deco necklace and the Monet earrings. The shoes are the Medicci Boots #2


Here a close-up of the A Touch Of Deco Necklace and Monet earrings.

The Greek Tragedy minidress and A Touch Of Deco necklace are both available at Fi*Friday. The Monet earrings are available at L'Accessories.

Go shop! And Enjoy your Second Life.